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    KEVIN LANE. MATC, BTh, CPLC
    MEET THE COACH

    I'm a happy and dedicated husband to my best friend of 34 years, father to four adult children, grandfather, and a sinner saved by grace who loves and is loved by Jesus.

    About Me

    For over 25 years, I dedicated my life's work to pastoral ministry to teens and their parents. At the height of the COVID pandemic, my attention turned to helping teenagers who were impacted by trauma, isolation, addiction, and a lost sense of purpose that the global experience amplified. Recovery is

    I love Jesus, doing projects around the house, and helping others find joy and purpose in life. When I'm not working, I use my time writing, reading, cooking, re-learning how to play guitar, and dreaming about chocolate lab puppies.

    My Commitment to Personal Growth

    After receiving a cancer diagnosis in February of 2024, my coaching practice was refocused to pursue the best choices for my recovery and survival. One year later, through changes in lifestyle and successful treatment, I am carcinoma-free and healthier in body, mind, and spirit than at any time in my life.

    Credentials

    Certificate of Ordination, Grace Gospel Fellowship

    Certified Professional Life Coach (CPLC), IBCC

    • Addiction & Recovery
    • Brain Health
    • Mental Health
    • Youth Mental Health

    Additional Certification & Training

    • Conflict Intervention Skills, Crisis Prevention Institute
    • PCIT For Traumatized Children, Univ. California, Davis
    • CORE Certification, Youth Specialties
    • Strategy Training: Growing a Healthy Youth Ministry, Sonlife Ministries
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    Mission. Core Values. Coaching Objectives.

    The QSC Mission

    QuadShot Coaching strives to point clients toward an active, growing relationship with Jesus Christ in every aspect of their lives.

    Core Values



    1. Scripture-based Authority: Everything I do, believe, and present as a coach comes through a Scriptural hermeneutic. (2 Timothy 3:16-17)
    2. Truth-Seeking: The coach/client relationship must be transparent, authentic, and honest for the sake of growth and forward movement. (1John 5:20)
    3. Authentic Witness: Authenticity will draw people to Christ. (Philippians 3:12-14)
    4. Life-Altering: QSC pushes clients to explore their comfort zones to expand outward as they grow deeper in their life purpose. (2 Timothy 1:6-7)
    5. Humility: All ministry must be clothed in humility. (1 Peter 5:5-6)
    6. All-Encompassing: Living a full life encompasses a whole-person approach; mental, emotional, personal, and physical transformation (Luke 10:27).
    7. Sanctuary: QSC provides a safe place for clients to question, brainstorm, and grow. (Psalm 27:1)
    8. Intimacy: Our relationship with Jesus is our youth ministry. (Psalm 139)
    9. Awe-Inspired Wonder: Ministry must allow us to regularly rediscover the astonishment of the vastness of God and His infinite love for us, compel us to seek answers from His Word, and leave room for His continual work in our lives. (Philippians 3:7-16).
    10. Creativity: QSC coaches clients to be free to discover and express their God-given creativity (2 Corinthians 5:17).

    Coaching Objectives

    The QSC objective is to help clients establish the following five components in their lives:

    1. Purpose: Centering God in their lives rather than centering their lives upon themselves.
    2. Understanding: Growing more and more like Christ, and less and less like the world.
    3. Success: Seeing people through the eyes of God, with the heart of God, and with a desire to share God with others.
    4. Fellowship: A time of communal growth for the Body of Christ. It can display itself in different aspects of the Christian walk.
    5. Service: Taking what the Lord has taught us (internal) and expressing it into the lives of others (external), both believers and non-believers.

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#6: Something Wonderful About Love

Ephesians 1:4b-6

“In love he predestined us to be adopted as his sons through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will—to the praise of his glorious grace, which he has freely given us in the One he loves.”
~Ephesians 1:4b-6

“In love…” How wonderful! This love is not just an emotional response, but it is also responsive action. God responds to His own desire by willing and bestowing the title of an adoptive family member upon us; something He chose to do and feel, as verse 4 says, before the realm of Creation even existed. God has been carrying us in his heart and mind since eternity. THAT is love!

There are four different words in the Koine Greek which are sometimes translated into our one English word love. These four are erós, from which we get erotic or sexual attraction, storgay, which describes familial love, phil-eō, which is the brotherly love of deep relationships with friends through camaraderie and unity, and agapè, which is a love of sacrifice; putting another before self.

We know from history and the from the study of the classical Greek language and thought that agapè-love was the least commonly used word for of the four. The word bore a negative connotation with it because the predominant culture leading up to and of that time viewed agapè as a form of character weakness. That is, until Jesus… (read John 3:16).

The writings of the early Christians focused upon this love as the way to break down barriers of race, culture, social status, sexism, politics, and selfism. While erós, storgay, and phil-eō are loves which receive, agapè-love is a love of sacrificial giving.

No wonder Paul sings the praises of God in response to this great and all-encompassing love! God responded in agapè-love to imagine us. God responded in agapè-love to create us. God responded in agapè-love to redeem us… all of this love was before we even came into existence. Love’s responsive action of provisional grace—freely given—means that an offer stands for all of Creation to respond back to God’s invitation of adoption.

The Apostle John declared that God IS agapè-Love (1John). We learn from the rest of the Scriptures—both Old and New Testaments—that God is in love. God agapè-loves us with the same ferocious love through which the Trinity loves and communes together. Think back on verse 1:3 and upon what this love has given us when we receive it.

Wonderful full of wonder. The One who made you loves you.
Dive More Deeply
THIS WEEK
  • Using the definitions of the four loves from above, ask yourself to what degree you love yourself, substituting each of the four in place of our English word love. Yes… all four. Take your time with this, and let your mind follow each thought to conclusion.
  • As you develop your morning intentions, contemplate how God's agapè-love is driving your life; The Creator of the Universe and all that it contains holds you in such a place of importance that it emotes self-sacrifice as a response to how you are invited into relationship with the Trinity.
  • In light of God's purposeful intent to love you even before you came into existence, what does this same purposeful intent say to you about your life now that you live and move and have your being? Remember to look through the lens of agapè-love as you contemplate this throughout the week.

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